How Girls are Photo on Instagram

Okay, here's the thing. Obviously your boyfriend is going to see pictures on instagram, facebook, whatever. He may think, "oh, she's cute", or "nice picture", which we both know is normal. I'm sure you see boys' pictures on facebook and think to yourself, "what a cutie!". But when he clicks that 'like' button, he is making it public, and known to not only that girl but everyone else, that he thinks she's hot. He physically went out of his way to press that button. Was it necessary to press it? Nope. And that probably makes you feel like a great big pile of poop. 

My boyfriend used to do that all the time on facebook. I talked to him about it and told him it made me feel bad, and he hasn't like a girl's picture since. It's all about his level of respect for you. I can't believe some guys are so thick-headed that they don't realize 'liking' some girl's picture online can really mess up the self esteem of their actual girlfriend. 

Talk to him. It's really not fair to you to be sitting there seeing him like all these pictures. And if he tells you to deal with it or suck it up, dump him. You can find a guy who will respect you and care for your feelings. I found one! And no it's not wrong to get mad. It bothers some girls and it doesn't bother others. NEVER feel wrong for having feelings :) good luck!